The growing number of suicide cases in Samoa is alarming.
While official figures are not available, not a week has gone by for the past three months where a case of suicide has not been reported. In some weeks, there are two or three.
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And that’s only the reported cases.
There are also many unreported cases. The ages of the deceased are between 19-35 years old.
Today, the Sunday Samoan talks to Fa’ataua O le Ola Senior Counselor, Tua Maalo Tulua, about the issue. Why has suicide suddenly spiked again after it looked as if it was going away.
Tua puts the issue down to the lack of communication between young people and their parents.
“We notice that the age group that is committing suicide is from 19 years upwards,” she said.
“It doesn’t matter what we do here and how much we try to reduce it, it is still and will continue to happen.”
“The problem is, it is the lack of communication within families and also between parents and their children.”
“That’s the major problem and that is what is causing these suicide cases to rise,” she said.
Tua stressed the important of communication between parents and their children.
“I know that Samoan parents are very strict and some of them are still living in the old ways and don’t believe in children sharing their problems,” she said.
“However, this is the new millennium and everyone understands that life is going forward, and so parents really need to give their children the chance to voice what is on their minds.”
“Suicide is something that everyone needs to work together to try and reduce this problem, it’s not one person’s job, it is everyone’s job.”
“The parents, community and also organizations should all work together in trying to reduce this problem.”
“This issue is not only happening in Samoa but everywhere around the world and people need to take the issue seriously to avoid the young ones from thinking that suicide is the answer to their problems.”
“I also advise the young people, if you are scared of talking to your parents then find someone that you are comfortable around, our office is always open 24/7,” she said.
“We are not trying to take the parents’ place but we are trying to help reduce the issue and if you need to talk to someone, we are here to help.”
“But, the parents are the key to this problem, and so I urge you (parents) to give your children the chance to talk to you about their problems.”
“The best time for family is during an evening family prayer, talk to them and then give them the chance, and listen to them.”
“I know for some parents it is very hard, but if you love your children then you ought to give them a chance”
She also advised the young people that committing suicide is not the answer to any of the problems but it will only make the problem bigger.
“There are people who are out there who are willing to help you. We will listen and we will help you get through whatever situation you are going through,” she said.
“[But] suicide is not the answer, your life is precious and there is a lot out there for you - opportunities that you will miss if you take your life, so don’t do it, but talk to someone.”
If anyone needs help please contact Faataua O le Ola on their free call line 800- 5433 and their service is 24/7.
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